But living together, raising children, working, dealing with finances and the rest of living often stresses this bond.  The result is that couples begin to argue with each other.  These arguments often begin over inconsequential and minor issues.  If not repaired, partners begin to mistrust each other.  They begin to doubt their partner’s love and commitment.  More serious arguments, anger, hurt, sexual withdrawal, and emotional disengagement are a preview to the physical disengagement of a divorce or a breakup which may follow.

Falling In Love Is Not Enough is about re-capturing the closeness and intimacy which couples had when they first fell in love.  It takes the view that couples want to be best friends with each other.  Using attachment theory, it shows how that friendship is threatened.  The book offers concrete ways of getting closer.

After reading the book, I invite you to email me and share your thoughts and reactions.  I look forward to sharing your insights with my readers.

Joe Dragun, Ph.D.
Author